Print out, show, and question them about some of the things you've found NOW, and guage their reaction.
Better yet, discuss it with someone who is familiar with the issues and teachings of apostates. I have been debating issues related to my faith for years and I can tell you for a fact that there is nothing the apostates have that can stand up to the truth.
With all their talk about what they have being the truth, instead of offering answers they'll quickly move to the scare tactics of it being apostate literature or that it's inspired by demons or people who only want to bring you down or seperate you from Jehovah's "fine arrangement".Which, of course, happens to be true.
Stick to the issues you brought out and remind them that if what they have is the "real truth", one should not be afraid of other literature and that it should be able to withstand some scrutiny.That is typical apostate reasoning and it goes directly counter to the Bible's counsel, such as Paul's words at 1 Timothy 6:3-5, which reads: " If any man teaches other doctrine and does not assent to healthful words, those of our Lord Jesus Christ, nor to the teaching that accords with godly devotion, he is puffed up with pride not understanding anything, but being mentally diseased over questionings and debates about words. From these things spring envy, strife, abusive speeches, wicked suspicions, violent disputes about trifles on the part of men corrupted in mind and despoiled of the truth." Apostates have absolutely nothing of value to offer you. They only want to corrupt you. Like I told you, many of the XJWs on this board are extremely immoral and corrupt but they are so puffed up with arrogance that they also try to pass themselves off as experts on matters of spiritual truth.
Ask those you are studying with about their policies on disassociating, disfellowshipping, being labeled an apostate or shunning, and you'll see why.They will be more than happy to show you what the Scripture say in that regard. We have nothing to hide in that respect.
There's a reason that most of them are some 30 or 40 years older than you. They've spent a lifetime "waiting on Jehovah",That's nothing to be ashamed of.
Those who question too much are kicked to the curb, cut off from the support system they've come to depend on.The responsibility of Christian elders is to protect Jehovah's people from predatory individuals who are intent on sowing seeds of doubt among others. But, no one who has sincere doubts is disfellowshipped. We are always willing to work with friends who may have developed doubts. But the Scriptures are pretty clear about how to handle those who are intent on stumbling others. No organization is obligated to put up with individulas who foment discord and suspicion among others. The curbside is where they belong. / You Know